I’m glad you liked. What I find fascinating in this is that it really takes the pressure away from us parents. We’re constantly asked to take decisions and are so used to do it everywhere and with everyone, that we don’t realize that our children can do it by themselves. Especially during power struggles we get into the defense mode and feel that we do also have to find a solution, but actually we don’t 😉 Unless it’s something really serious and too difficult for our kids to handle, they usually have all the tools to help themselves and we can give them a hint by asking them questions. – Good luck and let me know how it went, and which questions I could add to the list.

Thank you, Misirlou, that’s a very important one! It’s so important for our children to learn how to fail and how to go on afterwards! You’re perfectly right. – I’ll add it into the text 😉

Ha, madrexilio, when our children are teenagers, this questioning gets to another level. I’m having this with my son (he’s 10) and the questions he asks are already quite challenging sometimes. But I really prefer the questioning than being the one who does the thinking for 4 (sometimes 5…) persons.